If you know what you are looking for, the task of finding your soulmate will be much easier and the journey will accelerate. Love is like a puzzle, so you seek a partner who provides a snug fit, not an identical copy of you. The more you both share as you discover each other, the greater your joy will be. You are looking for a partner and a friend. The physics of attraction are universal. If you focus on bringing something or someone into your life, you will attract him.
This guide will help you paint a portrait, to define the attributes and qualities of your ideal soulmate. This exercise is a breeze: itâ€™s all about you! Most fascinating, you will be surprised at what you will learn about yourself.
A deeply felt relationship will grow more beautiful and substantial over the course of your lifetime. Your team of two will face, overcome and survive the challenges life presents. Use your wish list wisely. When you can answer, â€œWhat will I bring to the table?â€ you can define the best person to call your partner.
This exercise must be an open and honest conversation with yourself. It cannot be done in a hurry. Spend as much time as it takes to work out the desired attributes of your partner. Make your list on paper. Hand write it, make it as long as you want and be specific. Focus. Take a break and come back to see your list in a different light. Do some of your requirements strike you as shallow or leftover from an old you? Discard them.
Above all, make sure you havenâ€™t forgotten a single thing on your list. Once you have envisioned the whole character of your soulmate, your wish list will offer an interesting reflection of you. Keep it on your altar or burn it on the beach in a ceremony. You will know the right way for you to offer your request to the Universe.
Here are a few questions to help guide your exploration of your soulmate list:
Does your soulmate work? are they dependable? How do they value work? Will they be a good provider? The importance someone places on their employment often reflects on dependability. As you raise a family, how committed are they ?
How do they spend their free time hours? How do you? Are they project based, fixing this and maintaining that? Do they hunger for creative expression or for adventure and travel? Are they a homebody or a couch potato? Are they dependent on you for fun or do they have their own interests? How a partner spends their leisure time is often an indicator of their potential performance as a parent.
General disposition? What is yours? Are they a go-getter? Are they reserved and cautious? Do they look before they leap? You have heard the saying “while fools rush in”
Do they keep to their word? Do they follow through and do what they say they are going to do?
What does your mate own? What do they cherish? What is most important to them? Do they keep their possessions in good condition?
How does your mate regard their body? Do they treat themselves well? Are they Â hoping to be around awhile? And are they doing what it takes?
How do you feel about yourself? How will your mate feel about themself? In life, we all go through ups and downs, at various times. In general, what is his/her outlook on life? Sunny or gloomy? What does he/she respect?
What is your spiritual core? How do you honor Life? How should he/she? It may be very important for to you to find a Â partner with the same religion. A deep spiritual sense, of another belief, may be just as good.
CHALLENGES & VICTORY
How does your partner face uncertainty? When times are tough, how do they react? Fear is a normal and everyday part of life. Insecurity is nothing to be embarrassed about. Conversely, how do they win? With grace and humility? Or do they strut and gloat? Victory and defeat are fascinating aspects of a personâ€™s character.
How do they define fun? Do they laugh? What type of humor makes them laugh loudest? And you? Do you prefer a partner who brings a healthy dose of sarcasm? Is his/her humor clean or dirty? Is it offered in kindness or out of spite?
You can learn much from oneâ€™s respect and understanding of tradition. Are family or religious customs important? Do they hold dearly certain practices that are handed down over time?
YOUR SOULMATE WISHLIST
Realistically, you may not find a bullâ€™s-eye, a man/woman who meets every one of your requirements. Aim for a majority, not perfection. When you honor your list and refuse to settle, you may wait longer, but you will be happier in the long run. Donâ€™t give in to loneliness and choose the wrong mate.
Your list is a road map that leads you in the right direction. It will help you manifest and conjure. Finding a soulmate is an exercise in compatibility. As co-captains in Life, you will sail your ship over calm and stormy seas. Do you work well together? Yes! You are soulmates
Just remember – Love is not logic and our biggest key to attracting the right partner is:
1) To be happy in ourselves and clear emotional baggage, every person is a new beginning and do not judge others by what has happened in the past.Â
2) To enjoy our life regardless of whether we have a relationship or not
3) Gut feeling and connection
4) last but not least make sure you are treated well
Author – Caroline of Crystal Heart Psychics
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