Following you spiritual path | Crystal Heart Psychics| Psychic readings where the heart matters

Following a spiritual path can enrich life in many ways. One principal way is through healing. Immersing yourself in a spiritual practice is a time-honoured method of healing emotional wounds. While there are many ways to overcome the damage done, distance helps along the process. Sidestepping negativity has many benefits. Staying close to a lousy situation can be self-destructive, and yet when you are in the middle of it, you may come up with all sorts of rationalisations to keep you stuck.

Getting space away from a problem may come from an intentional act such as moving away from or ceasing communication by choice or because the other party has moved on. Leaving for a while (or forever) provides a psychological break. When you create distance, you inherently acknowledge that a problem existed. Many people cannot admit this. Many pursuits of inner peace begin with people waking up from a period of denial. To simply leave is a big step, but the tension caused by the negativity actually inhibits breaking the ties that bind.
Here are some tips on breaking the cycle of negativity, creating distance and healing from afar as part of your spiritual path.

Make the Break
Whether you are living with nagging parents, self-destructive friends or an emotionally manipulative spouse, making the break is the biggest step toward healing. You might be scared and feel alone, but pulling back and looking at the big picture will help. Change is a process, one that might be dramatic at times. The drama of resolutely leaving might be a high point, but it is really just one action on a long road of changing your life’s priorities. The name for that road is: The Spiritual Path.

Look Ahead
So much spiritual practice concerns concentrating on the present. When you are healing from afar, though, there can be peace in thinking about the future. Homesickness is a real emotion. Even if you were in a relationship with someone who was abusive, separation can produce a wistful yearning for a closeness that never really existed. Looking ahead to a better world and imagining your place in it can yield powerful advances in your healing.

Pace Yourself
Once you make a quick break, you might expect some equally dramatic incidents to occur at regular intervals. Chances are this will not be the case. Your life will not become a non-stop action movie. Pacing your healing is important. Do not get ahead of yourself and think you are strong enough to return to the life you left. Don’t let boredom with a new location change your conviction to embrace the healing process from afar.

Let Others Heal in Peace
In our era of social networking and complete connectivity, the concept of far away is not just a physical description. Snooping names on search engines and open social networks keeps a relationship alive even if it is done without the other person’s knowledge. When a physical wound heals, healthy tissue slowly replaces damaged cells. When an emotional wound heals, new relationships slowly overtake the empty space caused by vacating old connections. Some people go so far as to change their name in order to remain online but to create a distance that the Internet may not readily offer.

New Social Support Group
Any healing process is accelerated by making new connections. If you have created distance between yourself and others in order to heal, it is no reason to be isolated. Healing from afar is effective when it is not healing in isolation. There are many ways to make new friends. Be it taking classes and seminars or joining a club, like-minded people are everywhere. Spirituality is making a connection with the divine in the everyday. Making a connection with other people is a way to practice this. Getting to know the universe in the person of an acquaintance puts you closer to the divine in yourself.

Avoid Idleness
In addition to new people in your life, healing from afar will only work if you have little or no idle time. Get a hobby, embrace a new philosophy, volunteer or pursue an education. Your time must be filled with something other than longing. Your days need something that defines the present in an absolutely different manner than before. The busier you are, the faster you will find the peace that so many seek in their process of healing.

Analyse Your Role
At some point in the healing process you will need to think about becoming a better person. You will need to get to know yourself a little more deeply. This could have some uncomfortable but necessary moments. Take a thorough inventory of what you may have done to put yourself in harm’s way. Your spiritual search for healing has at its genesis a cause.

No matter how responsible other people may be for the situation from which you need to heal, you must be brutally honest about any responsibility that you have in what has transpired. Do you set yourself up to fail? Do you encourage negative behavior in others with codependent actions?

Taking responsibility for your own role in your plight is a sign of great maturation and actual transformation from who you were to who you are becoming. You may choose to seek healing from afar from a psychic or an energy healer who can send healing to your problem and do clearing or balancing work on your energy meridians. Healing from afar can create a safe space for you to confront yourself in order to become the person you truly wish to be.

Author – Caroline
Crystal Heart Psychics
Psychic readings, Psychic coaching, Psychic counselling
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Being a psychic wizz !! | Crystal Heart Psychics | Psychic Readings | Where The Heart Matters

Are you the one who always sees it coming? 
Can you see a friend has been dumped even before she even spills the beans about her heartbreak? You might be the psychic lightning rod among your friends.

With this psychic gift, you can do a lot of good for those around you. But it can also be a bit of a curse. Use your power correctly and you deepen the bond with your closest friends. Develop an arrogant superiority about your psychic strength and you could be shunned as a haughty know-it-all with unsolicited advice. Here are five tips for you if your connection with close friends, family and acquaintances gives you vision into everyone’s destiny!

‘Mum’s The Word’
This is the easiest position to take. If nobody asks for advice, a good friend refrains from offering unsolicited commentary that goes against expectations or hopes. It is really quite simple to avoid discussing your psychic visions. Giving someone news they do not want to hear often sets you up to be the enemy. It can make you more than a psychic lightning rod; it can make you the lightning rod for criticism.

‘Embrace the Positive’
If you see a vision of a friend being dumped by a lover, start the conversation with a cheerleading sense of this person’s independence. After the dumping actually takes place, you will have already primed your friend to believe that there are lots of available partners for such an independent spirit.
Underscoring breakthroughs and positive changes that occur after transformative events is your basic job description as Psychic Lightning Rod. If your friend is about to have a great, upbeat moment, cheerleading is what is called for from the moment you see it coming. Otherwise, prepping your friend to make a soft landing is your calling.

‘Embrace a Medium’
People take advice better when it comes from an authority. If you are having visions of a friend’s future, you might want to offer to give this person a Tarot reading or an astrology reading. Brush up on your skills by finding a medium that works best for you.
When you give a friend a reading, a few things can happen. First, you will be able to hone your initial vision through the direction that your chosen medium illustrates. This offers your friend a clearer vision of what you are seeing or feeling. Second, your friend might fill in some of the blanks about what is going on in response to the imagery of the Tarot reading or the symbolism of the astrology chart. Third, and most importantly, when you involve a medium, you do not seem like just any friend offering unsolicited advice. Your vision has a proper context in which to be discussed and considered.

‘Create a Relaxed Environment’
If you decide to tell a friend something that seems urgent and necessary, create a safe place for this person to receive your words. The news you are delivering is serious, big and spectacular. You cannot walk up to a friend you bump into at the grocery store and say, “I had a vision your dad got hit by a car,” and expect a hug and endless
gratitude for sharing your gift.

Find a comfortable place where people relax and are open to visionary descriptions of coming changes. Perhaps your house or apartment has a meditation room that can comfortably hold more than one person. Is this a retreat-like setting where you can discuss intimate matters without interruption? Can you give a friend a space in which judgment is not passed?

When you do set up the get-together, avoid overly dramatic language. There is nothing worse than building up expectations only to have a friend feel let down when all you deliver is old news or bad news. Being a good friend means being a great listener. You can of course approach the whole topic indirectly. Get your friend to talk about her own insights. You might find that she already knows what you’ve seen.
‘Insist on a Reality Check’

If you believe you are the final word, the universe will rebel against you. When you share your vision with a friend, explain to them that you may be biased and suggest they seek a neutral reading from a gifted psychic. You should not radically alter the course of a friendship because of your ability to see the future. Maintaining a normal relationship despite your gift is the hallmark of true friendship.

Author – Caroline of Crystal heart Psychics
Psychic readings, Psychic coaching, Psychic counselling
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Connecting with your guides | Crystal Heart Psychics | Psychic Readings Where The Heart Matters

When a person first discovers their psychic abilities this does bring alot of questions to mind.
One of the biggest questions is how do I connect more with my guides? This is a process of evolution and our guides come to us when we are ready. However we can develop a greater connection by meditation.
‘How do I meditate’
Meditation is a higher form of relaxation, where we learn to let go.
It is where we allow our conscious thoughts to take a back seat and allow our subconscious mind to flow through.
This can take practice and meditation is a way of training our mind to stop thinking, helping us to relax and connect in to a higher consciousness (higher self) so we can become more tuned in to our higher connection.
The best place to describe meditation or perhaps you could even call it a hypnotic state is the place just before we go to sleep, where we empty our minds of all the thoughts going round in our head and are in a total state no thoughts at all.’s
This does take time and is a bit like brain training, as when we lead such busy life’s it can be difficult to learn to switch off. To aid this we can listen to guided meditations which help up go into that deep state of relaxation where we let go of all that is around us the thoughts and troubles and concerns of the day.
‘How to make time to meditate’
In today’s busy society, we all think we haven’t got time. However 10 minutes before we wake up in the morning or 10 minutes just before we go to sleep can be the best time.
By meditating before we go to sleep, you will feel far more awake in the morning, as from learning to turn your brain off and stop thinking you will gain a better nights sleep. By having the right amount of sleep this in turn will help you relax more and not get so worried about things.
Meditation is brain training, and by learning to relax we find ourselves far more connected and in flow, you will find it easier to connect with your higher self and  your own inner guidance.
Over times our spirit guides come to us naturally and in many forms, for Caroline (founder of Crystal Heart Psychics) this was through pictures I received in my head, feelings given to me and names in thought forms at the same time as the picture.
After working professionally as a psychic medium, life coach and healer for many years, Caroline learnt when you connect into your higher self, and inner wisdom you are connected more frequently, and by training your mind you can also control when you choose to connect to your spirit guides.
One of the many experiences Caroline had was once when performing spiritual healing on a client, she saw the hands of one of her guides, guiding to where her hands needed to be on the clients body.
Over time, all of this creates a person who has a greater connection to the divine.
Often this is referred to as channelling spirit. 
Author – Caroline of Crystal Heart Psychics
Psychic readings, Psychic coaching, Psychic counselling
Where the heart matters


Soulmates, and the art of finding the right one | Crystal Heart Psychics | Psychic Readings Where The Heart Matters

If you know what you are looking for, the task of finding your soulmate will be much easier and the journey will accelerate. Love is like a puzzle, so you seek a partner who provides a snug fit, not an identical copy of you. The more you both share as you discover each other, the greater your joy will be. You are looking for a partner and a friend. The physics of attraction are universal. If you focus on bringing something or someone into your life, you will attract him.
This guide will help you paint a portrait, to define the attributes and qualities of your ideal soulmate. This exercise is a breeze: it’s all about you! Most fascinating, you will be surprised at what you will learn about yourself.
A deeply felt relationship will grow more beautiful and substantial over the course of your lifetime. Your team of two will face, overcome and survive the challenges life presents. Use your wish list wisely. When you can answer, “What will I bring to the table?” you can define the best person to call your partner.
This exercise must be an open and honest conversation with yourself. It cannot be done in a hurry. Spend as much time as it takes to work out the desired attributes of your partner. Make your list on paper. Hand write it, make it as long as you want and be specific. Focus. Take a break and come back to see your list in a different light. Do some of your requirements strike you as shallow or leftover from an old you? Discard them.
Above all, make sure you haven’t forgotten a single thing on your list. Once you have envisioned the whole character of your soulmate, your wish list will offer an interesting reflection of you. Keep it on your altar or burn it on the beach in a ceremony. You will know the right way for you to offer your request to the Universe.
Here are a few questions to help guide your exploration of your soulmate list:
Does your soulmate work? are they dependable? How do they value work? Will they be a good provider? The importance someone places on their employment often reflects on dependability. As you raise a family, how committed are they ?
How do they spend their free time hours? How do you? Are they project based, fixing this and maintaining that? Do they hunger for creative expression or for adventure and travel? Are they a homebody or a couch potato? Are they dependent on you for fun or do they have their own interests? How a partner spends their leisure time is often an indicator of their potential performance as a parent.
General disposition? What is yours? Are they a go-getter? Are they reserved and cautious? Do they look before they leap? You have heard the saying “while fools rush in”
Do they keep to their word? Do they follow through and do what they say they are going to do?
What does your mate own? What do they cherish? What is most important to them? Do they keep their possessions in good condition?
How does your mate regard their body? Do they treat themselves well? Are they  hoping to be around awhile? And are they doing what it takes?
How do you feel about yourself? How will your mate feel about themself? In life, we all go through ups and downs, at various times. In general, what is his/her outlook on life? Sunny or gloomy? What does he/she respect?
What is your spiritual core? How do you honor Life? How should he/she? It may be very important for to you to find a  partner with the same religion. A deep spiritual sense, of another belief, may be just as good.
How does your partner face uncertainty? When times are tough, how do they react? Fear is a normal and everyday part of life. Insecurity is nothing to be embarrassed about. Conversely, how do they win? With grace and humility? Or do they strut and gloat? Victory and defeat are fascinating aspects of a person’s character.
How do they define fun? Do they laugh? What type of humor makes them laugh loudest? And you? Do you prefer a partner who brings a healthy dose of sarcasm? Is his/her humor clean or dirty? Is it offered in kindness or out of spite?
You can learn much from one’s respect and understanding of tradition. Are family or religious customs important? Do they hold dearly certain practices that are handed down over time?
Realistically, you may not find a bull’s-eye, a man/woman who meets every one of your requirements. Aim for a majority, not perfection. When you honor your list and refuse to settle, you may wait longer, but you will be happier in the long run. Don’t give in to loneliness and choose the wrong mate.
Your list is a road map that leads you in the right direction. It will help you manifest and conjure. Finding a soulmate is an exercise in compatibility. As co-captains in Life, you will sail your ship over calm and stormy seas. Do you work well together? Yes! You are soulmates
Just remember – Love is not logic and our biggest key to attracting the right partner is:
1) To be happy in ourselves and clear emotional baggage, every person is a new beginning and do not judge others by what has happened in the past. 
2) To enjoy our life regardless of whether we have a relationship or not
3) Gut feeling and connection
4) last but not least make sure you are treated well

Author – Caroline of Crystal Heart Psychics
Psychic readings, Psychic coaching, Psychic counselling
Where the heart matters


Good psychic readings | Crystal Heart Psychics | Online Psychic Readings

To get the most from your psychic reading, a psychic reader will prefer someone who is open and wants to listen to the guidance we offer. All psychic readers have spiritual guides and we are here to advise and guide you through the rich tapestry of life.

To get the most out of your reading:
1. Be open
2. Set the intention of what kind of information you would like from the reading
3. What kind of reading would you like – Angel card,Tarot Card, Mediumship, Clairvoyant, healing.
4. Do you need guidance around a situation right now
5. Would you like to know what potentially is coming up in the future
6. Your thoughts and intentions will always help you get the reading you want.

Author – Caroline of Crystal Heart Psychics
Psychic readings, Psychic coaching, Psychic counselling
Where the heart matters


A warm welcome from Caroline at Crystal Heart Psychics

A big warm welcome from Caroline the founder of Crystal Heart Psychics. Please take the time to watch my introductory video which gives an insight into the reasons why I set set up Crystal Heart Psychics in 2013.